I have been very great full as to finding many books and Articles pertaining to my research topic. I started my search using the Front Range Community College, online library resource link. One of the tabs that I used was the "Consumer Health Complete" tab. I felt that this would be more related to what I am searching for. When I started my research I was leaning a little more towards using spanking as a last resort technique when it comes to discipline. I think that the reason I was more pro-spanking is because that's how I was disciplined as a child. As I have come to find out spanking is not an effective form of discipline. After reading up on all the negative effects spanking can have on children. I'm definitely leaning towards positive and effective forms when it comes to discipline.

            

                                                   

My first resource I found was an article titled "Breaking Your Bad Habits."  I felt that this article was very realistic on the advice it gives to parents on ways to discipline your children. It was about how parents can sometimes making kids fell like they are just as overwhelm as the parents when it comes to discipline. How most parents come to realization and start to questioning "how did their child get like that? (Par 2.)  What I liked most about this article was that it gave very detailed examples on what to do if the parenting style isn't working for the parent or the child. When children misbehave most likely they are aware on how their parents are going to discipline them. So to keep the child from misbehaving requires parents to always change up the style so that discipline is always positive and effective. Neifert suggest to always staying patient with yourself and with the child if he/she is misbehaving.  In this article she gives specific examples on what parents do and what they should actually do when it comes to discipline.  Anytime a parent is disciplining their child always remember to show affection and let the kid know that they are loved. 

                                                                                                                   

 

In my second source I found an article titled “Spanking” by B.D. Schmitt. I thought reading an article written by an advisor can be some great help when it comes to my research topic. In this topic Schmitt reveals alternatives when it comes to spanking that can help raise well-mannered children without using physical punishment. Some parents may think that spanking is effective but it’s really not. Spanking can harm your child and have a negative effective on the child. Spanking a child will only lead the child to think that it’s ok to hit others when it really isn’t. According to Schmitt “less than 50% of American parents still occasionally use physicals punishment” (par 4).  The article continues on about the negative effects but further down the article is a “Safeguard” list for parents that believe spanking is effective. On this list there are some examples on when, how, and where to spank your OWN child. At the end of the list parents are reminded that if they are constantly spanking their child, maybe they can take a class or seek therapy as to what’s really going on.

 

Works Cited

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Neifert, Marianne. "Breaking Your Bad Habits." Parenting, Dec/Jan 2005. Volume 18, Issue 11. 176-180.

Schmitt, B.D. "Spanking." CRS-Pediatric Advisor. 2013, p1-1.

      Finding the correct and most effective forms to discipline a child can be difficult. But finding ways that work without enforcing fear is the key when it comes to discipline.  According to Virginia Cooperative Extension “Mutual respect and love are also an important part of the discipline process.”

      This photograph of a father daughter in a picture surrounded with a blurred background image indicates that they are the main focus in the picture. The close up of this picture also indicates the importance of the father and daughter relationship as well as the importance of their communication. The little girl is wearing a long sleeve shirt with pink pants to match this indicates that this photo may have been taken during fall or winter time.
      I sense a little sadness and disappointment in the little girl’s facial impression. It also seems that the little girl is siting with her hands crossed with her head sort of pointed down, but she maintains eye contact with her father while he is talking to her. It seems that maybe the little girl may have done something wrong. And instead of the father using physical force it seems he is using positive discipline. I say that the father is using positive discipline is because, even though he may be upset he still has his are wrapped around his little girl. That indicates that he is showing that no matter what she did he loves her.  Is positive discipline the way to go when teaching kids? What effects does positive discipline have on children? Do children really learn from their own mistakes?

Works Citied:

http://www.livestrong.com/article/97795-types-child-discipline/#ixzz2igXumKOX

My Research question pertains to parenting. "What is the best and most effective way to discipline a child?"  From my personal experiences I would say that spanking is not the way to discipline a child. I feel that spanking should be the very very last thing on the discipline list. When I say spanking, I’m referring to a tap on the hand. When I was a child my parents used spanking as their way to discipline myself and my siblings. I feel that they never abused spanking but they did however spank us when we were behaving badly.  My parents just wanted us to behave proper and respect everyone especially them. They never spanked us just to do it. It was more of a teaching kind of way to get our attention. I know one thing for sure is that it worked. Do I think it would have made me any different from the way I am today probably not! I knew that if I did something very bad I was going to get in trouble. I never talked back to my parents ever. It was consider disrespectful and wrong. Now days it seems like kids don’t respect their parents or their elders as much as they did when I was growing up. Does that have to do with different backgrounds and beliefs about discipline certainly? I come from a strong traditional background and being punished for something I did wrong was not consider a bad thing it was the norm at least that’s my opinion. I think that most parents today think of discipline as a time out. But does that really work? I have not yet meet a parent that believes in spanking as a form to discipline a child. However I have met older parents and grandparents that think some kids are out of control and it may be because that child was never disciplined growing up. I want to find out what discipline techniques work the best and what are the ways that are not as effective when it comes to discipline.

Hi my name is Ness. I am a Colorado native. I was born and raised in Denver. I have been married almost eight years now. I'm a mother to three wonderful children, my oldest is six years old and my twin boys are four years old.  I'm a recent stay at home mom. I recently quit my sales job of five years so that I can continue my education in business. I have been a student at FRCC for almost one and a half years.  The reason I set up this blog is to help generate ideas for one of my English writing essays.  I am working on an argumentative essay. "What are the most effective forms to discipline a child?" I feel that this is always a hot topic when it comes to parenting.  Especially when I ask parents “what are some ways they use to discipline their children?”  Please feel free to comment or give examples on effective ways that can help when it comes, to how to discipline a child.